So there was an AITA post about how their wife has a 'secret' bank account and it made me think of money and how it is organized in my life.
I had a savings account from the time I was very little, Birthday money and such all went in there. There were only deposits until high school were I would deposit babysitting money and take money out for big trips. Then when I went to college I got a credit card which i used twice a year for the first 2 years.
I got a new checking and savings account halfway through college when I started working at staples. This was fully mine. I opened it. I still have it and my paycheck still get deposited there.
When Hubs and I moved in together (after engagement but before marriage) we signed up for a joint account that we both deposited money into for rent/grocery/household expenses. We don't put in a 50/50 split but rather more representative to our salaries.I think right now it is like a 60/40 split cause he makes more money. We have reviewed what our contributions are ever 18 months or so. I calculate up what our average monthly expenses are (Mortgage, childcare, grocery, internet, pet expenses, cell phones) and we make sure that we are depositing that much plus an extra 10%. We also put any monetary gifts/extra money that are to both of us in there. (wedding, anniversary, tax refund).
Everything else goes into our personal accounts (Both checking and savings). From our personal accounts we pay for our student loans, credit cards, car payments, gifts for each other and any other purchase we want. For me that is yarn and more yarn, for him that is computer part or stuff for his latest projects. This means we can buy what we want and the other will (mostly) be quiet about it.
We also recently opened a joint savings account to start saving for a down payment for a house. we each put some money in there. I put some in every paycheck he puts some in twice a month after paying his bills.
So I think in a average paycheck it breaks down like this for me.
40% goes to the joint checking account for joint bills.
30% to personal checking account
20% goes to my personal savings account
10% to the joint savings account.
This is what works for us. I am a saver and he is a spender but we both hate doing budgets.
I had a savings account from the time I was very little, Birthday money and such all went in there. There were only deposits until high school were I would deposit babysitting money and take money out for big trips. Then when I went to college I got a credit card which i used twice a year for the first 2 years.
I got a new checking and savings account halfway through college when I started working at staples. This was fully mine. I opened it. I still have it and my paycheck still get deposited there.
When Hubs and I moved in together (after engagement but before marriage) we signed up for a joint account that we both deposited money into for rent/grocery/household expenses. We don't put in a 50/50 split but rather more representative to our salaries.I think right now it is like a 60/40 split cause he makes more money. We have reviewed what our contributions are ever 18 months or so. I calculate up what our average monthly expenses are (Mortgage, childcare, grocery, internet, pet expenses, cell phones) and we make sure that we are depositing that much plus an extra 10%. We also put any monetary gifts/extra money that are to both of us in there. (wedding, anniversary, tax refund).
Everything else goes into our personal accounts (Both checking and savings). From our personal accounts we pay for our student loans, credit cards, car payments, gifts for each other and any other purchase we want. For me that is yarn and more yarn, for him that is computer part or stuff for his latest projects. This means we can buy what we want and the other will (mostly) be quiet about it.
We also recently opened a joint savings account to start saving for a down payment for a house. we each put some money in there. I put some in every paycheck he puts some in twice a month after paying his bills.
So I think in a average paycheck it breaks down like this for me.
40% goes to the joint checking account for joint bills.
30% to personal checking account
20% goes to my personal savings account
10% to the joint savings account.
This is what works for us. I am a saver and he is a spender but we both hate doing budgets.